Retained Primitive Reflexes and the Nervous System: Frequently Asked Questions


Have you ever wondered why your child seems to work so hard at things that appear to come naturally to other kids?

Maybe sitting still takes enormous effort. Handwriting is exhausting. They seem unusually clumsy, struggle with coordination, constantly need to move, or become overwhelmed by sounds, textures, and busy environments.

There can be many reasons for these challenges, but one piece of the developmental picture that is sometimes worth exploring is primitive reflexes.

Primitive reflexes are automatic movement patterns that begin developing before birth and play an important role during infancy. As the brain and nervous system mature, most of these early reflexes should gradually become integrated so that more intentional, coordinated movement can take over.

When a primitive reflex remains active beyond the stage when we would typically expect it to integrate, it is often referred to as a retained primitive reflex.

Below, we've answered some of the questions parents ask us most often about primitive reflexes, why they matter, what retained reflexes may look like, and how they fit into the bigger picture of a child's neurological development.

Sometimes the Behavior We See Is Only the Surface

A child who can't sit still may not simply need to "try harder."

A child who avoids sports may not simply dislike them.

A child who hates handwriting may not simply be careless.

A child who melts down in a busy environment may not simply be misbehaving.

There can be many reasons behind these struggles, and retained primitive reflexes are only one possible piece of a much bigger developmental picture.

But sometimes looking at those pieces helps us ask a better question.

Instead of "Why won't my child do this?"

we can begin asking:

"What might be making this harder for my child?"

That shift matters.

Because when we understand more about what a child's nervous system is experiencing, we can stop seeing only the behavior and start seeing the child behind it.